I generally don’t like sounding like some type of feel-good, self-help coaching resource, so please forgive the title. I don’t like giving people Peter Pan advice which sounds good and feels good but does nothing to help them personally. I would rather offend or challenge someone if the final outcome is going to help them in some way. I would rather be an ogre if by so doing, I can help someone to become stronger and enable them to protect themselves and live a happier life. I do have a good reason for the title of this article, however.